Choices

We make them everyday. What to have for breakfast, what to wear,which toothpaste brand to use, what hairstyle to do. The list could go on and on.

Some choices have minimal or no long-term repercussions but some do; which course to pursue in school, who to choose as friends, who to confide in.
For most of us, it's the choice of who deserves the title of bae or boo?

The person you choose happens to be someone you'd be willing to spend your entire lifetime with having no regrets or doubts.

At this point, you could be at crossroads especially when more than one person qualifies to be the one. By choosing one you'd definitely lose the other. But alongside pain comes uncertainty that goes with the choice. Is it the right one? Would there ever be regrets?

We all have reasons for choosing who we want to be with. Some reasons can never be shared with others. Those reasons are best understood by us.

But as we contemplate making these life-changing choices, let's do that with a rational mind. With no feelings attached, weigh the pros and cons, seek God's view. These are hard-to-make decisions. Not making a choice in itself is a choice. Though choices come at a cost, hopefully more sooner than later, you'd adjust.

The opportunity cost of the vital choices we make is high. Just be ready to deal with it. Because sometimes, it'd be too late to regret.

Baaba Bavard